First of all, my father is the most adorable older gentleman that ever existed, and my parents are the cutest couple in the world, still holding hands and talking care of each other.
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Their last trip to see me was one of the best visits we have ever had. My parents adore my boyfriend, and they get along very well. We laughed, ate, talked a lot and just were together as a family.
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And then something happened was delightful and a little surprising.
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Sometimes it is hard to imagine our parents as they were when they were younger, before we existed, when they were single and maybe even a little wild. I have always known my father to be quite…well, fatherly. But I have seen pictures of how handsome he was when younger (and he is still handsome just older). I know when he was younger he had either a Maserati or Karmann Ghia (I am not a car person and get them confused). So I do know that he has an appreciation for cars. And as a professional engineer, he has worked on many of them over the years, tinkering with this or that. And he watches the History Channel programs on planes and engines and such.
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We were just going up the store to pick up a few things, when my father strolls out of the house, with his slick sun glasses on, announcing that he is ready to go…in the convertible. It is my boyfriends car, and it really is a wonderful, speedy, sporty thing. But Dad, requesting the convertible? With a big grin on his face, he slipped into the passenger side and off we went, zipping through the neighborhood, classical music blasting on the stereo (his favorite)
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When I said it was a beautiful day, my father happily corrected me and said that it was a beautiful day to be out in a convertible. It was a wonderful drive and made me wish the store was actually further away.
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So it is now that whenever we can, Dad will go for trips and rides in the convertible, smiling big, maybe remembering times gone by. It truly is the simple things in life, like a ride with the top down on a pretty day, with your dad. I will forever hold that sweet memory in my heart.