It’s a very special day, the day you were born. And it should be celebrated. No matter how old or young you are, a birthday should be a celebration. It is the eve of my birthday and I am excited to finally begin. Oh the year has been great so far, but it seems there have been tissues and cold medicine and coughing all night…that has gotten in the way of my month long observation of the birthday.
And I think back to where I was just a year ago, and how much better life is today. I think back and shake my head at what a silly girl I was, just year ago. Two years ago, and I have lost track of the person I used to be. She is like a distant friend I used to know.
And that is how it is with life, love and the pursuit of happiness isn’t it? Ever changing, ever evolving, and always interesting. And would we want it any other way? Think of how boring life would be if we really could see into that crystal ball anytime we wanted. Sure. it is tempting – that is why psychics are so popular. But to always know what is around the corner? No thank you.
Being older and wiser, I still have the same theory on life – always be curious. About everything. Ask questions, take changes, take risks, and always, believe in yourself. And love with all your heart. This theory has served me well in my years on this planet. We may still make mistakes, have unpleasant happenings, but even those are chances to learn, grow and be better the next time around.
Today is not a dress rehearsal. And tomorrow isn’t promised. So drink it up, every last moment in life. And that, to me, is what this birthday and this year means. I want to spend time with my loved ones, enjoy their laughter and stories. Looking in the headlines of the three celebrities who have passed just this week from cancer, makes me acutely aware of how blessed my family has been. Now excuse me while I blow out some candles.