It happens to all of us at some point, feeling overwhelmed, or worried, or terrified and frusterated. We look around and suddenly everything we thought was uder control, isn’t. And ilife looks like a cross between a war zone and a construction site as we run around trying to get everything back in order.
That’s when we need to pause and take a breath, eat a Twix or just sit a moment. When things in life seem unmanageable and overwhelming, go back to the basics, the simple things. Go back to what grounds us, makes us smile, feel secure and warm. We need to be wrapped up, safe and sound, in our own little emotional security blanket. You go back to love. We may even need to roll up our sleeves and get dirty too. After all, a little sweat never hurt anyone.
For me, going back to those simple things that remind us that the entire world has not gone crazy, are family, friends, simple pleasures and laughter. All of which have been present today.
I am helping a friend pack up her house before it is sold. There is so much to be done and mot much time in which to do it. And today was mainly planning, plotting and figuring out. Tomorrow is when the real work will be done. But today and until leave when the job is done, will be spent with lots of friends, all of us pulling together to get this done, all out of love.
Tonight I spet hanging out with my friend and her boyfriend. We had some small talk, ate a good meal, watched a cool movie on TV while relaxing on the couch, talked, laughed and just had time to enjoy the simple things in a wonderful life. I listened as they talked about their plans for the next year, and buying a house, and expanding a business. And as I watched them, it gave me hope that I can find that kind of relationship too.
And so it is, this night as I snuggle down into warm soft covers in a warm soft bed. I drift off to sleep enjoying the simple things in life – friends, family, food, hope and love. And really, aren’t those some of the best things that life has to offer?