Be Fiesty. Always

Always be feisty. Always.  This is advice that I would give to girls and women today. Why? Because ebing feisty means that you can think for yourself. It means that you are smart; you have a brain and are not afraid to use it. Being feisty means you will not be controlled nor have your dreams curtailed by those who have ulterior motives.  It means that you stand up for that which you believe, even if no oe else stands with you and you are alone.

In this day and age, there are may influences. So many people, circumstances, situations and choices that pull you in all different directions. How do you know which way to go? How do you know what is that right way, the right thing?

You pray and you listen to your conscience – your gut instinct. And you refuse to bow down to those who would be bullies or those who would try to control you or tear you down to make them selves feel better.

Let’s face it, the world can be a scary place. I truly believe that the majority of people out there are good, even wonderful honest people, just trying to figure it all out the best they can just like the rest of us. But, there are those who would do you harm. There are those who are predators, who would hurt you just for there own demented enjoyment. There are those who are completely broken, and must feed off the life they can get from others. There are people who will try to tell you that you cannot accomplish your dreams, that you are stupid, ugly, wrong, or whatever.

Don’t listen to them. Be strong. Be feisty. Know your own worth when you look in the mirror – because you are beautiful, strong, competent and worthy of all good things, wonderful things that you can imagine. That is what being feisty means. And those who love you, will embrace you being feisty, strong willed and determined. Don’t listen to those who do not. Because those are the ones who do serve you – those are the ones who will do you harm. Let them roll off you like water off a ducks back. Do not let them concern you, because you have bigger and brighter things in store for you.

Being feisty also means walking away from unnecessary drama. Yes, life gets messy, and maybe even ugly, sometimes. But it should never stay that way. It should never be the constant. If you look around, and all you have is drama around you…it’s time to make some changes. It’s time to look around at the people you have in your life and starts making some cuts to your friends list. And start conducting your life in a way that courts peace, positivity and forward movement. This con be hard to do, but trust me, it’s worth it.

And more than anything, don’t ever let yourself be controlled by anyone. You control your destiny, you control how the story is written and what happens in the end. You. And yes you can do it. Don’t listen to anyone who tells you you can’t. They are wrong.

Being feisty os being strong enough for all of these things. It is not being mean or ugly. But there are those who will call you names for being feisty. There are a few ex’s of mine who still call me a bitch because I fought against them. Let them say what they want. It is of no concern to you.

Pray, treat others right, and stand up for that which you believe. And be feisty. Always.